The Real Deal

I wasted a lot of time (and emotions) trying to play the dating game.

Showing up at every happy hour, attending professional networking events, even letting friends set me up on a blind date and trying to force a relationship that was doomed from the start.

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What Came Next...

 

When I got radically honest with myself, I committed to studying relationships, worthiness and attraction. What I uncovered changed my life for the better. 

I needed to know how to:

#1. Figure out why I kept getting distracted & caught up by guys that were all WRONG for me when Mr. Right could be right in front of my face.

#2. Stop comparing every guy I met to my ex and pushing them away before the relationship even had a chance to begin, just so that I wouldn’t get hurt again. And instead meet every guy with a clean slate and open my heart to the possibility of love without the fear of heartbreak.

#3. Establish healthy boundaries without being confrontational or coming across intimidating and teach him how to treat me with decency, honesty, & respect of my values, time, and emotions.

#4. And get crystal clear about who I am, what I want in a partner, and the type of guy that is so perfect for me that I would become a magnet for quality men ready to date towards commitment.

But here’s the best part.

Once I decided to ditch the relationship rules, and dating games and JUST focus on those 4 fundamentals - EVERYTHING changed.

I remember going on a very casual date with the friend of a business acquaintance with no real expectations and not thinking much of it, just wanting to have a fun evening.

But ONE YEAR later, I was married to the most amazing, supportive man who is absolutely perfect for me.

How did that happen?!?!

That’s what happens when you show up in the world with a strong sense of self-worth and awareness. With the right kind of energy that attracts not repels. With extreme clarity around what you want & deserve, without all the emotional clutter that clouds your relationship decision making.

And with the confidence of knowing you don’t have to settle for less!

The right guy for you is out there and it’s time for you to become the type of woman who will attract him.

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Here’s some FUN FACTS…

I grew up in Philadelphia. I’m A Twin. A Wife. A Boy Mom. A Christian. A Life Member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority.

I studied classical ballet for 15 years & graduated from Charm School but football is my first love.

I love water sports and am always ready to go scuba diving, water skiing, jet skiing or any other water adventure.

Obsessed with all things Christmas and start listening to Christmas music and watching holiday movies in October.

Love to bake homemade goodies from scratch and my Pound Cake has been a featured dessert in local restaurants.

Lived in South Africa for several years and can speak basic Zulu and Afrikaans phrases.

Laughter is the best medicine and I take multiple doses throughout the day.

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